If you’ve been following my blog, you’ll know that my mom had a stroke last year. Among the effects of the story, it took away her ability to read (letters, symbols and numbers) but oddly not her ability to handwrite. If you want to learn more about that oddness, here’s last year’s post: https://www.debpatz.com/what-i-learned-about-writing-from-a-stroke/
Another lesson on the journey of recovery is from the time when she was still in the hospital: a lesson about hope.
Beyond her struggles to remember how to read, to calculate what year it was, to identify cutlery on the lunch tray, and so on… my mom had a desperate need to see the movie “Johnny English.”
Really?
Apparently, in all her hospital tests and discoveries about abilities lost and not, she wanted to know if she could still understand movie comedy and enjoy one of her most favourite films. She knew she had shelves of books in her home she might never be able to read again. She needed to know if her shelves of movies were also going to be out of reach.
She asked about the movie near daily, looking forward – no doubt with trepidation – to when she’d have the chance to see it again and find out. But until she did, she was determined that she’d not know the full extent of what was lost with the stroke.
So, one day, I brought the movie along with a portable DVD machine and headphones to the hospital. I had to help her use the machine because she couldn’t read the icons on the player – not even the buttons for play, pause or volume.
Watching her watch the movie… well, I can hardly describe the joy on her face as she discovered she could still understand the story, still catch the humour – both wit and slapstick. In that moment, the movie gave her hope: hope for the future, hope for some level of recovery. And even if some skills were going to remain lost to the stroke, she’d still have movies. She’d still have story and comedy.
You see, the medical profession keeps you alive physically, but stories can keep you alive emotionally.
That moment in the hospital will stay with me. It is the reason I entered the film industry in the first place: to truly affect people’s lives with filmed story. To make a difference in people’s lives through story.
As a filmmaker, you rarely see that connection actually happen. You are part of the movie being made and during release, it goes out strangers you may never meet. It’s a blessing that, every now and then, life will let you know that the connection is working. And hope is born in me too.
The hope and power of story!
Cheers & a good shoot to you,
Deb
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